Sometimes I am half cut when I reply to messages, and then they reply to me and I have no idea what I said.

Be nice if I could see what drunk ugo said, then sober ugo could clean up any mess :)

Agreed, this has been suggested since the previous owner hosted the game.

i think the grand plan was to have everything more linked to the forum messaging

Oh, are you having issues with forum or game msg's..

They are two different area's forums should work fine, and in the new UI their is improvements being made so that sent/inboxed msg's are displayed in different folders.

Game, you can see what you wrote to players in forums PM system, not in game though.

I'll have a look and see how the sent msg's are kept, because atm i think they arnt kept..